What do you think you have to give up in order to have a thriving relationship with a high quality masculine man? Do you think you need to change who you are? There is one key thing you need to give up.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:
– The one thing you need to give up to find soulmate love
– How this one thing is keeping you from finding true love
– What will happen when you give this up

READY TO MAKE A DRAMATIC CHANGE IN YOUR LOVE LIFE?

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. Hello and welcome to another love lesson. I am so happy to be here with you. So. What do you have to give up in order to have epic love, in order to have soulmate love, in order to have a thriving relationship with a healthy, high quality, commitment minded, marriage minded man? What do you need to give up in order to have that fantastic relationship? What do you need to give up in order to have it all? So let’s talk about that. For a lot of times, women who are just, you know, rocking and shocking in life, you get your career, your your your business, your, you know, your managing people, whatever the thing is that you’re that you’re doing. You don’t. Oh, you’re like, what else? Like, you’re you’re you’re going on vacation with your girlfriends, right? And and you’re kind of tired of going on vacation just with your girlfriends, right? You want to go on vacation with your man, so you don’t want to give up your freedom, right? You don’t want to give up your freedom. You want to be able to go on on let’s say on vacation. You want to be able to feel like you can still do what you want to do. Do you need to give up your freedom in order to to have it? All right, you got the the the finances, the career, the house, whatever.

Speaker1: [00:01:50] But this love life is your missing piece. Do you have to give up your freedom in order to have it all? No, that’s not it. Do you we mentioned your your career, your your professional success. Do you need to give that up in order to to have it all to have the man that matches your success in in the professional arena? You want to have that kind of success in your love life, too. Do you need to give give that professional life up? No, actually, you don’t. Do you need to give up? Kind of like doing what you want in your life. No, you don’t need to give that up. But here’s the thing. For the high performing, high achieving, goal oriented, single professional woman who we work with, there is something that you need to give up and it’s something that you probably are not even holding on to in other areas of your life because you can’t be successful in other areas of your life. If you’re holding on to this one thing and here’s what it is, you got to give up the victimhood. You got to give up the the the victim way of thinking about your love life. You got to give up victimhood when it comes to men like, oh, he did this to me. That’s why everything is shit. You know, give up victimhood when it comes to your life.

Speaker1: [00:03:34] I understand. We understand that. When I say we am like our whole team, me, Laura, our coach is like, we understand that you have been through hardships in your life, in your love life, had terrible things happen. We really do understand that now. I’m not saying that you have to somehow wave a magic wand and not have been a victim of things in the past, whether it be a victim of someone lying, cheating, stealing, or victim of of crime of of variety of reasons abuse, neglect, rape. I mean, a lot of abuse happens and crimes are committed that someone is a victim of. What I’m talking about is giving up a victimhood way of thinking about your life going forward. Meaning giving up a victim of being a victim. Like having like victimhood. Thinking around men. Like I’m a victim of this man. That men. All these men. I have to. I’m a victim of of my life. I’m a victim in my my finances. I’m a victim in my health. The reality is, you’ve got to take control of your love life the same way you took control of other areas of your life. You’re getting your degree rising up in your your career. You took control in those areas of your life. You started to think about what you can control. And people say, well, you know, I can’t control a man. I have to I don’t want to have to chase a man.

Speaker1: [00:05:24] Nobody’s talking about you chasing a man. When when I say you have to take control and you got to go for your dreams, and you think that you have to chase a man or go after man. All that reveals is that you’re completely clueless about how to really wield the power of feminine radiance. It simply means that it’s absent from your understanding. It’s absent from your awareness, and therefore it’s absent from your experience, meaning that you’re not exuding feminine radiance. You’re probably way too much in your masculine. And that’s why there’s no healthy, masculine, feminine dynamics that that is not a death sentence. Meaning like you’re not stamped with that for life. Like, I have brown hair, you know, until my hair turns gray. That is my reality. I have brown hair. And so it’s not like that. Like it is what it is. You know, what I’m saying is that that if you are finding that, you’re just thinking aggressively like, oh, I don’t want to have to chase a man. That means your whole thinking process is more masculine oriented, which means it’s going to be virtually impossible for you to be feminine and, like, exude feminine radiance and be magnetic from a feminine standpoint because you haven’t taken control of this area of your life. And I don’t mean take control where you have to go and ask a bunch of guys dates the the love warriors which is our our clients our love warriors they become magnetic.

Speaker1: [00:07:09] And so you actually take control of what you can take control of and you are not chasing after guys by any stretch whatsoever. Hey, thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career. And you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why Truelove hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally though, that would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want to book a call. A love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Laura. Yes. Laura herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again, that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough Clarity. Call right away.

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